Gerbera.

Mount Awful (2192m) on the left as seen from Gillespie Pass, Mount Aspiring National Park, New Zealand πŸ‡³πŸ‡Ώ

Mount Awful (2192m) on the left as seen from Gillespie Pass, Mount Aspiring National Park, New Zealand πŸ‡³πŸ‡Ώ.

Bivi at 1285m looking across Young Valley. -2 degrees Celsius during the night.

Looking towards Young Basin, Young valley, Mt Aspiring National Park, New Zealand. πŸ‡³πŸ‡Ώ

Upper Caples Hut, Caples valley, New Zealand.

McKellar Saddle, Greenstone, New Zealand.

Today’s mood music: The Doors - People are Strange

McKellar Saddle, Greenstone, New Zealand.

Petroica Australis, South Island robin, Caples valley, New Zealand.

Road rage

My own experience of road raging has been much helped when I woke up to how my own ‘shoulding’ and ‘shouldn’ting’ was making me angry.

I noticed more and more that my anger was the result of me focusing my attention on what other people ‘should’ or ‘shouldn’t’ be doing and then judging them as being ‘wrong’ or ‘bad’.

For me this has been such a beneficial shift in understanding and awareness.

This place never gets old, taken from Caples valley. #NewZealand #Aotearoa

Bush basher boots.

Today’s mood music - Van Halen - Dance the night away.

Dahlia.

Today’s mood music: Kate Bush, Running up that hill.

When we don’t know how to directly and clearly express what we need, but can only make analyses of others that sound like criticism to them, wars are never far away - whether verbal, psychological, or physical. #nonviolentcommunication